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Who were you being when you first enrolled into Soul Therapy School®?
I was very lost and confused. I knew there was more to life but it was out of my grasp. I was still being, doing and living life as I felt I was supposed to and being a people pleaser. I had no idea who i was or what I really wanted out of life.
Why did you join Soul Therapy School®, what did you feel or think it would give to you that you desired?
Direction – the skills to work in a way that was more in alignment with who I was. Reconnect to my soul and to ceremony.
When did you notice the first changes take place in your life while in Soul Therapy School®?
I started seeing my codependency my insecurities and relationships in general in a different light. I had a rage full mother and husband so I learned that if I did, said and acted as they wanted it kept the peace and I would be safe. This has followed me my entire adult life even though I have worked at overcoming this behaviour. Being a people pleaser and the fear of rejection and abandonment kept me from truly being me. I had such a low self esteem that I ignored my intuition and knowing.
Soul Therapy School® has helped me to reconnect with my soul. Although I’ve done deep inner work for years, the tools I learned here took me deeper and helped me understand on a soul level the root of my issues. Thus allowing me to grow into and trust my knowing. I’m starting to see the power I have in creating my life….the good and the bad. I ended a toxic relationship, selling my house and about to embark on a journey I’ve been wanting to do for some time. I would not have had the confidence to do this before.
Where in your life have you seen the greatest shift to your awareness and life from being in Soul Therapy School®?
Watching how my clear intentions and doing ceremony have helped to create this new life. On the spring equinox, I did a powerful ceremony and placed an intention for a buyer and envisioned my new life. I held that vision and had a buyer within 2 days.
Also my ability to receive and know that I am worthy of great things.
Lastly, there is no integrity and honesty in being a people pleaser, I find that I have more integrity as I leave that person behind.
How do you express or explain to other women who are thinking about enrolling into Soul Therapy School®?
Soul Therapy School was life changing for me. It was the missing piece of the puzzle for me to finally take control of creating the life I always wanted.
Do you feel there is more to you and your life than what you are living? Are you ready for more joy and glory in your life? Do you keep creating the same pattern in your life over and over only to find it brings you sorrow and not joy? If so, Soul Therapy School® may be for you. There are many levels of classes to explore to find the one that calls to you. Why not invest in yourself and happiness? I did and it was the best investment I ever made. I have worked at overcoming this behaviour. Being a people pleaser and the fear of rejection and abandonment kept me from truly being me. I had such a low self esteem that I ignored my intuition and knowing. Soul Therapy School® has helped me to reconnect with my soul.
Although I’ve done deep inner work for years, the tools I learned here took me deeper and helped me understand on a soul level the root of my issues. Thus allowing me to grow into and trust my knowing. I’m starting to see the power I have in creating my life….the good and the bad. I ended a toxic relationship, selling my house and about to embark on a journey I’ve been wanting to do for some time. I would not have had the confidence to do this before.
List the top 5 benefits that you have received being in Soul Therapy School®
1. Less people pleasing
2. Honouring of myself and my knowing
4. Seeing the power I have to create my life
Working with Deborah Skye directly, how would you describe her teaching/mentoring style and it's effects on you?
Her connection to the Earth and Ceremony is what drew me to her. She is very intuitive. I like that she is both kind and gentle and also direct and honest. She does not beat around the bush. She encourages where necessary and will kick your butt where necessary too.
Saying YES! to joining Soul Therapy School® what area in your life has been the most impacted? How?
My relationship to self. After joining Soul Therapy School® I realized how deep my unworthiness was and how I used people, places and things to fill that void of self love. I thought I had done loads of work around that but it became crystal clear that my behaviours did not support any level of self love. I am learning how my choices and allowing toxic relationships of all kinds have reinforced my lack of self love. I’m slowly making different choices and the rose coloured glasses have come off. There is no more denial and illusion to what I had been creating in my life. I’m making different choices and know I will only get stronger and stronger as I continue my journey.
In the past I would not invite people to do things and would not be the “idea” person in a project or with my friends – I was too afraid of being rejected that my ideas or what I wanted to do had no value. Thus I was only showing up partially in any relationship…going along with whatever anyone else wanted to do. Now, I’m easy going and don’t mind doing that but I took it too far and lost myself along the way.
Thus I would attract dominating and over bearing friends and boyfriends. I would lose myself until i felt smothered and would have to end the relationship. I’ve been aware of this behaviour for a long time but did not understand on a soul level why I behaved this way.
Soul Therapy School® has helped me to see the root of this behaviour thus allowing me to make different choices. I’ve been putting myself out there more and not allowing the result to affect me one way or another. Making choices to just be me and truly be okay with me…both my strengths and weaknesses.
“Soul Therapy School® helps you to connect with your soul and live life from a soul level rather than ego based. What a gift it would be for your children to teach them how to live authentically rather than follow the rules society, friends and family place on us. The classes offered by Soul Therapy School® give you the tools to find your authentic self and what greater gift to pass on to your children?“